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Object Pronouns

After a verb whose action is directed toward a person or thing, use the object form: me, you, him, her, it, us, or them.

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Object Pronouns After Verbs

Who acts, and whom or what the action is directed toward

In a simple active sentence such as I help her, the subject names the person who acts, while the object is the person or thing affected by the action. If the object is already known, you can use a short object pronoun instead of a name or noun.

In the sentence I help her, the pronoun I names the person who helps, while her names the person who is helped. With verbs such as know, see, or remember, the object does not necessarily literally “receive” an action; what matters is that the verb relates to that person or thing.

How to build it

subject + verb + object pronoun

subject / S
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The grammatical subject: who or what the clause is about; the verb agrees with it. In The book was written, the book is the subject, although someone else does the action.
verb / V
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A word for an action or state, such as work or be. The pattern determines its form.
object / O
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Who or what an action affects: in I read a book, a book is the object.
pronoun
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A word used instead of naming a person or thing: I, you, she, it, they.

I help her.

I help her.

I performs the action, while her comes after help and names the person the action is directed toward.

They know us.

They know us.

Us replaces the group that includes the speaker and is the object of know.

Seven pairs of forms

The form depends on its role in the sentence: I → me, you → you, he → him, she → her, it → it, we → us, they → them. The forms on the left typically stand as the subject before the verb; in this rule, the forms on the right stand as the object after the verb.

You and it look the same as subjects and objects. Their role is shown by their position and meaning: You see it — you performs the action, while it is the thing being seen.

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I–me · you–you · he–him · she–her · it–it · we–us · they–them

She calls him every day.

She calls him every day.

She is the subject, while him is the object form needed after calls for a male person.

You can hear me.

You can hear me.

You before can names the listener as the person performing the action, while me after hear names the speaker as the object.

A pronoun replaces a clear name

Choose a pronoun according to the person or thing it replaces. In basic examples, use him for one male person, her for one female person, it for one thing, and them for several people or things. Me means the speaker, and us means the speaker together with others.

First name the person or thing, or make it clear from the situation. Without a clear connection, him, her, it, or them may be unclear. In this lesson, them mainly replaces a plural noun; in modern English, them can also refer to one person when the person’s gender is unknown or unimportant.

I like these shoes. I wear them every day.

I like these shoes. I wear them every day.

Them replaces the plural noun phrase these shoes and avoids repeating it.

This is my ticket. Please check it.

This is my ticket. Please check it.

It refers to one thing — ticket — and comes after check.

Statements, negatives, and questions

In a statement, the object pronoun comes after the main verb: Maya knows him. In a negative sentence, do/does + not comes before the main verb, but the pronoun remains after it: Maya doesn’t know him.

In a question, do, does, can, or another auxiliary moves to the beginning, and the object pronoun again comes after the main verb: Does Maya know him? Can you help us?

How to build it

Statement: subject + (auxiliary) + verb + object pronoun · Question: auxiliary + subject + verb + object pronoun

subject / S
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The grammatical subject: who or what the clause is about; the verb agrees with it. In The book was written, the book is the subject, although someone else does the action.
verb / V
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A word for an action or state, such as work or be. The pattern determines its form.
object / O
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Who or what an action affects: in I read a book, a book is the object.
auxiliary
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A helping verb used to form tenses, questions or negatives: do, have, be.
pronoun
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A word used instead of naming a person or thing: I, you, she, it, they.

I don’t see them.

I don’t see them.

The negative changes the verb phrase, but them remains the object after see.

Does she remember us?

Does she remember us?

Does opens the question, while us comes after the main verb remember.

Not every verb needs an object

The rule does not mean that you must add a pronoun after every verb. Help, see, know, like, call, invite, hear, meet, remember, and understand can have a direct object. In contrast, in She sleeps, the verb already forms a complete message without me or him.

In this lesson, we practise one clear object after a simple verb. Pronouns after prepositions, reflexive forms such as myself/himself, complex verb constructions, and formal debates about coordinated groups belong to other topics.

We invited them.

We invited them.

Invite requires an answer to the question “whom?”, so them naturally completes the sentence.

The baby sleeps.

The baby sleeps.

No object is needed after sleeps; do not add a pronoun merely to fit the pattern.

Replacing repetition without changing the meaning

A pronoun makes speech more natural when the listener already knows the name. I know Mia. I call her on Fridays sounds easier than repeating Mia in the second sentence.

When replacing a noun, keep the participants the same and consider the context: my brother → him, my sister → her, the phone → it, my brother and sister → them, my friends and I → us. If you replace us with me, the group becomes only the speaker. The choice of him, her, or singular them for one person depends on which pronoun is appropriate in that person’s context.

Leo and Ava are here. I can see them.

Leo and Ava are here. I can see them.

Them includes both named people.

My sister and I are ready. Please call us.

My sister and I are ready. Please call us.

Us means the speaker together with the sister, so it preserves both participants.

Using it in conversation

In a real utterance, first identify who performs the action, then identify whom or what the action concerns. After that, choose the form according to the meaning, not mechanically according to the nearest noun.

For self-checking, ask three questions: Is the pronoun’s connection to the person or thing clear? Does the form represent the correct participant and number? Is the pronoun in the required position after the verb? You can invent your own facts.

Can you help me find it?

Can you help me find it?

Me names the person receiving help, while it names the thing being looked for; both connections are clear from the situation.

Yes, I know them, and they know me.

Yes, I know them, and they know me.

The same people change roles between the parts of the sentence, so them becomes they, and I becomes me.

Common mistakes

Incorrect:Can you help I?

Correct:Can you help me?

After help, the speaker is the object, so the form me is required, not the subject form I.

Incorrect:I see she every morning.

Correct:I see her every morning.

The woman is the object of see; after the verb, use her, not she.

Incorrect:They know we.

Correct:They know us.

The group including the speaker comes after know as the object, so us is required.

Incorrect:We like they.

Correct:We like them.

For several people or things, use the object form them after like.

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Object pronouns after prepositions

What happens after a preposition?

A preposition shows a relationship between people or things: who something is intended for, who accompanies us, who a message came from, who we talk about, or who something is near. When a personal pronoun replaces a name or noun after such a word, use the object form.

A quick guide: find the preposition and identify who or what it refers to. In simple combinations after for, with, to, from, about, near and between, use me, you, him, her, it, us or them.

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preposition + me / you / him / her / it / us / them

preposition
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A word showing a relationship, such as in, on or from: from Ukraine.

This gift is for her.

This gift is for her.

For is a preposition, so it needs her after it, rather than she.

Come with us.

Come with us.

After with, use the object form us for a group including the speaker.

Subject and object form pairs

The form depends on the pronoun’s position and role. I, he, she, we and they usually function as subjects before the verb; their corresponding forms after a preposition are me, him, her, us and them.

You and it have identical subject and object forms. This is not an exception to the rule: they still have an object role after a preposition, but their spelling does not change.

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I → me; you → you; he → him; she → her; it → it; we → us; they → them

She is waiting for me.

She is waiting for me.

She is the subject, while me follows for.

The note is for you.

The note is for you.

You has the same form as a subject and after a preposition.

The bag is near it.

The bag is near it.

It can replace an object already mentioned; its form does not change after near.

Choosing a pronoun by meaning

First identify who or what the pronoun replaces. One man or boy is usually referred to as him, one woman or girl as her, one thing as it, and several people or things as them.

Me includes the speaker alone; us includes the speaker together with others. You refers to the listener or listeners. A correct form with the wrong referent does not convey the intended meaning.

I have a message from Leo. It is from him.

I have a message from Leo. It is from him.

Him refers back to one named person, Leo.

My parents are here. I am with them.

My parents are here. I am with them.

Them replaces the plural my parents after with.

Maya and I are ready. The tickets are for us.

Maya and I are ready. The tickets are for us.

The group includes the speaker, so for needs us after it.

Common relationships: recipient, company and source

For often names the person something is intended for; to gives the recipient of movement or a message; with names a companion; from gives the source. Choose the preposition according to the meaning, then select the appropriate object form after it.

Do not learn these combinations as one long list. Picture a specific relationship: a gift for her, a conversation with him, a letter from them.

Please give it to him.

Please give it to him.

To identifies the recipient; he changes to him.

We are travelling with them.

We are travelling with them.

With names the people travelling with us, so use them.

This card is from her.

This card is from her.

From identifies the source, and she becomes her after it.

Topic, location and a simple phrase with between

After about, name the topic of a conversation; after near, describe a nearby location. In simple expressions, between can describe a position or relationship between two sides; pronouns after it also take the object form.

In the standard phrase between you and me, I is unsuitable because it is a subject form. Here we practise straightforward short phrases, rather than every possible complex prepositional construction.

We are talking about them.

We are talking about them.

Them follows about and replaces several people or things.

The empty seat is between them.

The empty seat is between them.

Them represents the two already-known sides after between.

Keep this between you and me.

Keep this between you and me.

Both pronouns belong to the phrase after between; use me, rather than I.

Distinguish a subject role from a position after a preposition

A sentence can contain both forms: They are sitting near us. They performs the action and is the subject; us follows near. Do not change every pronoun to an object form: check each one’s role.

A pronoun after a preposition need not be the direct object of the verb. For this rule, identify the local pattern preposition + pronoun and correctly express who or what you mean.

He is speaking to her.

He is speaking to her.

He is the subject before is speaking, while her follows to.

We have a table near them.

We have a table near them.

We names the speakers as the subject; them names another group after near.

Using the rule in speech

In conversation, we often name a person or thing first, then avoid repeating the name: This is Anna. The parcel is for her. Make sure the listener understands who or what the pronoun refers to.

For a self-check, take three steps: find the preposition, identify the referent, and choose the object form. Then read the whole sentence to check that the meaning remains clear and natural.

Leo is outside. Maya is waiting for him.

Leo is outside. Maya is waiting for him.

The name in the first sentence makes the referent of him unambiguous.

These keys are important. Please talk to me about them.

These keys are important. Please talk to me about them.

Me names the speaker after to; them replaces plural keys after about.

Common mistakes

Incorrect:This gift is for she.

Correct:This gift is for her.

After for, use the object form her; she is a subject form.

Incorrect:Please come with we.

Correct:Please come with us.

After with, use us for a group including the speaker, rather than we.

Incorrect:The message is from he.

Correct:The message is from him.

After from, use him; he is used as a subject.

Incorrect:They are talking about I.

Correct:They are talking about me.

About needs the object form me after it.

Incorrect:Keep this between you and I.

Correct:Keep this between you and me.

In a simple phrase after between, the speaker’s pronoun takes the form me.

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Choosing subject and object pronouns

Identify the role first

The subject names the person or thing around which the action or state is organised. In a simple statement, it usually comes before the verb: she works, they know, it helps.

An object is a participant or thing involved in the action or relationship: she knows him, they call us, I work with her. It does not necessarily literally “receive” anything.

A reliable sequence is to identify the pronoun’s role first and then choose the form. Its position near a verb helps, but the sentence’s meaning and structure matter more than mechanically finding a neighbouring word.

How to build it

subject pronoun + verb … verb/preposition + object pronoun

subject / S
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The grammatical subject: who or what the clause is about; the verb agrees with it. In The book was written, the book is the subject, although someone else does the action.
verb / V
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A word for an action or state, such as work or be. The pattern determines its form.
object / O
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Who or what an action affects: in I read a book, a book is the object.
preposition
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A word showing a relationship, such as in, on or from: from Ukraine.
pronoun
—
A word used instead of naming a person or thing: I, you, she, it, they.

She knows him.

She knows him.

She is the subject of knows, and him is the object of that verb.

They work with us.

They work with us.

They is the subject; after the preposition with, the object form us is needed.

Seven pairs of forms

The complete set of pairs is I → me, you → you, he → him, she → her, it → it, we → us, they → them. The form on the left is for the subject; the form on the right is for the object of a verb or preposition.

The spelling changes in five pairs. You cannot therefore carry a subject form into an object position: not she knows he but she knows him; not them help us but they help us.

The pronoun I is always capitalised in ordinary writing. The main learning task in this rule is to identify the role and select the corresponding form, not simply reproduce the table.

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I/me · you/you · he/him · she/her · it/it · we/us · they/them

I call her after lunch.

I call her after lunch.

I identifies the speaker as the subject, while her refers to a woman as the object of call.

He often visits me.

He often visits me.

He performs the action; me identifies the person involved as the object of visits.

You and it do not change spelling

You has the same form for one listener or several, and for subject or object. In You help me, you is the subject; in I can help you, it is the object.

It does not change either. In It works, the pronoun is the subject; in I use it, it is the object. Identical spelling does not mean an identical syntactic role.

To identify the role of you or it, ask whether the pronoun is the subject of its clause or depends on a verb or preposition.

You can take it.

You can take it.

You is the subject, and it is the object of take; both forms look unchanged.

It is for you.

It is for you.

It is the subject, while you follows for as the preposition’s object.

After a verb and after a preposition

If a personal pronoun is the object of an ordinary verb, choose me, you, him, her, it, us or them: call me, know her, invite them. Not every word after a verb is an object, so check its role.

After with, for, to, from, about, at and other prepositions, also use the object form in this role: with him, for us, to her, about them.

The pronoun must clearly refer to the intended person or thing. Number and context help: keys → them, phone → it, Maya → her, Maya and Leo → them.

Please send it to them.

Please send it to them.

It is the object of send, while them follows to; both pronouns have clear referents in the context.

We see her at work.

We see her at work.

We is the subject, her is the object of see, and at work is a separate place phrase.

Questions and negatives do not change the roles

In a question, an auxiliary can come before the subject: Does she know him? She remains a subject form and him an object form.

In a negative, the pronoun form also depends on its role, not on not: They do not know us. The subject they appears after or before the auxiliary according to sentence type, but it does not become them.

For a quick check, find the full verb phrase and its subject, then separately find the object of the verb or preposition.

Does he work with you?

Does he work with you?

He is the subject after does, while you is the object of with.

They do not call us on Sundays.

They do not call us on Sundays.

Negation does not change the pair they/us: the first pronoun is the subject, the second the object of call.

Limits of the basic rule

After be, object forms are natural in ordinary speech: It’s me, That’s him. This is a complement after be, not an ordinary object of an action; formal It is I exists, but it is not the basic A1 model.

The short informal answer Me! to Who wants tea? is also possible. It should not be labelled ungrammatical simply because the full sentence would be I do.

For coordinated subjects, the standard teaching model is Sam and I work here. Other versions occur in real informal speech; this lesson does not assess the register of coordination. Reflexive forms such as myself, herself and themselves, and possessives such as my, her and their, belong to neighbouring rules.

It’s me.

It’s me.

In neutral and informal speech, me is natural as a complement after be.

Sam and I work here.

Sam and I work here.

This is the standard pattern for a coordinated subject; a detailed comparison of registers is beyond these exercises.

Using the rule in your own speech

Start with a short map of the roles: who or what is the subject, who or what the action involves, and which preposition the pronoun follows. Then check the form against the table of pairs.

In a short text, name the person or thing first, then replace repetition with a clear pronoun. If him, her, it or them could refer to two different things or people, repeat the noun instead of using an unclear pronoun.

To check your work, underline each personal pronoun, identify its role and find its referent. A model for an open-ended answer shows one natural version, not the only permitted text.

This is Ava. She works with us, and we often call her.

This is Ava. She works with us, and we often call her.

The name first introduces the referent; she and her then show Ava’s two roles, while us/we show two roles of the speaker’s group.

The tickets are here. They are for you, so please take them.

The tickets are here. They are for you, so please take them.

They replaces tickets as the subject, them as the object of take, and you follows for.

Common mistakes

Incorrect:Me work here.

Correct:I work here.

The speaker is the subject of work, so the subject form I is needed.

Incorrect:She knows he.

Correct:She knows him.

The pronoun after knows is the verb’s object, so he changes to him.

Incorrect:We spoke to they.

Correct:We spoke to them.

The preposition to requires the object form them.

Incorrect:Him helps us every Friday.

Correct:He helps us every Friday.

At the beginning of this statement, the pronoun is the subject of helps, so he is needed; us is already correctly used as the object.

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