First the apology, then the response
These expressions are reactions to someone else's apology. The other person says Sorry or I'm sorry, and you show that you accept the apology: That's OK, No problem, or Don't worry about it.
It is important not to confuse the roles. If you caused the problem yourself, you need to apologize; if the other person has already apologized, you can accept the apology. A short response often closes an unpleasant moment and allows you to move on.
apology → That's OK / No problem / Don't worry about it / Never mind
I'm sorry I'm late. — No problem. I just got here.
Sorry I'm late. — No problem. I just got here.
No problem directly accepts the apology, and the second reply explains why waiting was not difficult.
Sorry I took your chair. — That's OK.
Sorry I took your chair. — That's OK.
That's OK is a short, neutral reaction to a small problem.
That's OK, It's fine, and That's all right
That's OK and That's all right say that the situation is acceptable. It's fine, really also reassures the person. In everyday conversation, these responses are often enough on their own.
That's is short for That is. In writing, an apostrophe is required. OK and okay are two common spellings, but in the set expression the whole expression matters, not just the word OK.
That is → That's | That's OK. | That's all right. | It's fine, really.
I'm sorry I opened the wrong door. — That's all right.
I'm sorry, I opened the wrong door. — That's all right.
That's all right accepts the apology without making any additional demand.
Sorry about the small mark. — It's fine, really.
Sorry about the small mark. — It's fine, really.
Really strengthens the sincere reassurance; it does not change the grammatical structure.
Don't worry about it
Don't worry about it literally asks the person not to worry about the situation. After don't, use the base form worry, and introduce the specific problem with about.
The shorter Don't worry is also possible when the context makes the subject clear. Don't worry for it is unnatural in this meaning: the preposition about is required.
Don't + worry + about + it
I'm sorry I forgot your pen. — Don't worry about it.
I'm sorry, I forgot your pen. — Don't worry about it.
About it refers to the small problem already mentioned.
Sorry, I'll be five minutes late. — Don't worry. I'm still at home.
Sorry, I'll be five minutes late. — Don't worry. I'm still at home.
The object can be omitted because the reason for worrying is already clear.
No problem, Never mind, and It doesn't matter
No problem describes the situation as one that does not create a problem. Never mind shows that the matter is not important enough to keep worrying about. It doesn't matter directly says that it is not important.
Never mind is a set expression without to. In It doesn't matter, the base form matter is required after doesn't. These phrases have similar functions, but the specific following reply may make one of them more natural.
No problem. | Never mind. | It does not matter → It doesn't matter.
I'm sorry I broke the old cup. — Never mind. It was very old.
I'm sorry, I broke the old cup. — Never mind. It was very old.
Never mind is appropriate because the speaker immediately reduces the importance of the loss.
Sorry, I wrote Monday instead of Tuesday. — It doesn't matter. We can change it.
Sorry, I wrote Monday instead of Tuesday. — It doesn't matter. We can change it.
It doesn't matter reduces the tension, and the second reply suggests a simple correction.
Accepting an apology and still asking for an action
Accepting an apology does not mean that you must always ignore the problem. You can first calmly reply That's OK or No problem, and then ask for a specific action: Please send the right file or Please close the window.
If the situation is genuinely not fine, you should not insincerely say No problem. At A2 level, it is enough to acknowledge the apology neutrally and name the needed action: Thanks for telling me. Please call the office now.
I'm sorry I sent the wrong file. — That's OK, but please send the right one now.
I'm sorry, I sent the wrong file. — That's OK, but please send the right one now.
The first part accepts the apology, and but introduces the necessary correction.
I'm sorry about the noise. — Thanks for saying that. Please turn the music down.
I'm sorry about the noise. — Thanks for saying that. Please turn the music down.
The speaker acknowledges the apology but does not pretend that the noise is not a problem.
Grammatically possible does not always mean it is the needed response
Yes and OK can be grammatically correct as separate replies, but after an apology they do not always clearly show that you are reassuring the person. That is why, in an exercise requiring you to “accept the apology and reassure the person,” a bare Yes would be outside the aim of the exercise, not a grammatical mistake.
You're welcome typically responds to thanks, rather than accepting an apology. I'm sorry too is appropriate only when both people have something to apologize for. You should assess the role of the reply in the specific dialogue, rather than declaring any other phrase grammatically wrong.
I'm sorry I'm late. — OK, let me know when you arrive.
I'm sorry I'm late. — OK, let me know when you arrive.
OK is grammatically and meaningfully possible here because the following part gives a clear practical response; it is not a universal mistake.
I'm sorry I pushed your chair. — I'm sorry too. I was in your way.
I'm sorry I pushed your chair. — I'm sorry too. I was in your way.
I'm sorry too is appropriate because the responsibility of both people is stated directly.
Using this in a short dialogue
For a natural response, take three steps: understand what the person is apologizing for; decide whether you can genuinely put the problem aside; give a short reaction and, if necessary, add a reason or the next action.
You do not need to repeat the same expression in every situation. Never mind works for a small mistake, No problem for a delay, and when a correction is needed, use That's OK, but please…. Your own or invented situations are equally suitable for practice.
Sorry I missed your call. — No problem. Can you call me after lunch?
Sorry I missed your call. — No problem. Can you call me after lunch?
The response accepts the apology and immediately moves the conversation to the next action.
I'm sorry I used your mug. — That's OK. You can use it any time.
I'm sorry I used your mug. — That's OK. You can use it any time.
The second reply makes the acceptance of the apology even clearer.
Common mistakes
Incorrect:That's are OK.
Correct:That's OK.
That's already contains the verb is, so the additional are makes the predicate ungrammatical.
Incorrect:Don't worried about it.
Correct:Don't worry about it.
After the auxiliary don't, use the base form worry, not worried.
Incorrect:It don't matter.
Correct:It doesn't matter.
With the subject it in the Present Simple, the auxiliary doesn't is required.
Incorrect:It doesn't matters.
Correct:It doesn't matter.
After the auxiliary doesn't, the main verb must be in the base form matter, without -s.