A Suggestion Is a Move in a Conversation
A suggestion names a possible future action and invites the other person to discuss it. It is not the same as an order: the final decision has not yet been made.
To respond correctly, you need to hear not only the topic but also the other person's position. That works for me accepts the plan; I can't do Thursday, but what about Friday? rejects one detail and suggests another.
The same grammatical utterance can have a different function in another context. What if...? sometimes describes worry or a hypothetical possibility, so the context must show that the speaker is suggesting an action.
What if we share a taxi to the station?
What if we share a taxi to the station?
The speaker is suggesting a shared plan, not announcing a decision that has already been made.
That works for me.
That works for me.
The reply clearly accepts the previous suggestion.
How about and What if with a Shared Action
For a shared action, it is useful to use How about we + base verb? or What if we + present verb? After we, use the ordinary finite form: How about we meet...?; What if we start...?
Another common pattern is How about + -ing: How about meeting online? The subject is not named inside the -ing phrase, and the participants are understood from the context.
Do not mix the two patterns: after How about, do not use the to-infinitive. How about to meet...? is not a standard form for making a suggestion.
How about we + base verb? / What if we + present verb? / How about + verb-ing?
- verb / V —
- A word for an action or state, such as work or be. The pattern determines its form.
- V1 / base form —
- The base verb without to: work, go, be.
- V-ing / -ing —
- The verb form ending in -ing: working, going. Its role depends on the construction.
How about we move the call to Friday?
How about we move the call to Friday?
The base form move comes after we.
How about meeting near the library?
How about meeting near the library?
After How about, meeting is used without a separate subject, not to meet.
What if we split the work into two parts?
What if we split the work into two parts?
The Present Simple after What if expresses a practical suggestion in this context.
Two Main Patterns with suggest
When we name the action immediately after suggest, we need the -ing form: I suggest leaving at eight. The person who will do the action is usually clear from the situation.
When it is important to name the participant, use a clause: I suggest that we leave at eight. In informal speech, that can often be omitted: I suggest we leave at eight.
Suggest is not one of the verbs that takes the to-infinitive in this pattern. Therefore, I suggest to leave and I suggest us to leave need to be restructured, not simply followed by another word.
suggest + verb-ing / suggest + (that) + subject + base verb
- subject / S —
- The grammatical subject: who or what the clause is about; the verb agrees with it. In The book was written, the book is the subject, although someone else does the action.
- verb / V —
- A word for an action or state, such as work or be. The pattern determines its form.
- V1 / base form —
- The base verb without to: work, go, be.
- V-ing / -ing —
- The verb form ending in -ing: working, going. Its role depends on the construction.
I suggest booking the smaller room.
I suggest booking the smaller room.
After suggest, when the subject of the action is not named, use booking.
I suggest that we book the smaller room.
I suggest that we book the smaller room.
The that-clause names the person who will do the action, we; the verb book has the base form.
I suggest we check the price first.
I suggest we check the price first.
That is omitted, but the subject + base verb structure remains.
How to Clearly Accept a Suggestion
An acceptance should respond specifically to the suggested plan. That works for me, Sounds good, and Good idea naturally show agreement; add confirmation of a detail when needed.
A short Okay can be an acceptance, but intonation and context can sometimes make it unclear. In practice, it is important to be able to formulate an unambiguous response, especially when time, place, or a condition is involved.
An acceptance with a condition is not an unconditional yes: Friday works for me if we finish by four. The condition must be clear to the other person.
Sounds good. Let's meet by the main entrance.
Sounds good. Let's meet by the main entrance.
The first sentence accepts the suggestion; the second confirms a practical detail.
Thursday works for me if we start after ten.
Thursday works for me if we start after ten.
The speaker accepts the day but openly adds a condition about the time.
Rejection, a Reason, and a Counterproposal
A rejection is more useful when it clearly names the obstacle: I can't meet on Thursday because I'm away. The reason explains which part of the plan needs to change.
A counterproposal does not just say no; it suggests a new option: I can't do Thursday, but what about Friday? This helps continue the negotiation.
I'd prefer it if we met online gently shows a different preference. A grammatically correct direct rejection may be unsuitable for an exercise if the visible condition requires a counterproposal; this is an unmet communicative goal, not a grammar mistake.
I'm afraid Tuesday won't work for me because I'm travelling.
I'm afraid Tuesday won't work for me because I'm travelling.
The reply politely and unambiguously rejects a specific day and explains the reason.
I can't stay late, but what if we start at eight?
I can't stay late, but what if we start at eight?
After the rejection, the purpose of the conversation is maintained through a new realistic option.
Register and the Limits of the Rule
How about...? and What if...? are often natural in conversations between colleagues or friends. I suggest that we... is useful in a neutral or somewhat more formal discussion, but no pattern is automatically polite by itself.
Evaluate a response by its function, grammar, and context. I don't like it may be grammatically correct, but it does not say whether the speaker accepts the plan and does not offer a new option.
This lesson does not practise legal proposals, complex conditional sentences, or every possible verb used for advice. The B1 goal is to support a short, practical discussion of a plan.
I suggest that we review the figures before we decide.
I suggest that we review the figures before we decide.
This clear, neutral pattern is suitable for a work discussion.
How about a picnic on Sunday?
How about a picnic on Sunday?
How about can also be combined with a noun phrase; this is a natural informal suggestion.
Using It in a Real Conversation
The complete skill consists of at least two moves: one person makes a specific suggestion, and the other clearly shows their position. The conversation then either ends in an agreement or moves on to a new option.
Before responding, identify four things: what action is being suggested, who will do it, what is acceptable to you, and which detail needs to change. Then choose the function — accept, reject, accept with a condition, or counter-propose.
You can use imaginary plans in your own dialogues. The model shows one natural way, not the only permitted wording.
A: How about we test the new route tomorrow? B: Good idea, but could we go after lunch?
A: How about we test the new route tomorrow? B: Good idea, but could we go after lunch?
The response accepts the main idea while changing the time.
A: I suggest meeting at the café. B: That works for me. I'll book a table.
A: I suggest meeting at the café. B: That works for me. I'll book a table.
The suggestion, explicit acceptance, and following practical action form a complete exchange.
Common mistakes
Incorrect:I suggest to move the meeting to Friday.
Correct:I suggest moving the meeting to Friday.
After suggest, when the action's subject is not named, use the -ing form, not the to-infinitive.
Incorrect:How about to meet outside the station?
Correct:How about meeting outside the station?
After How about in this pattern, use the -ing form.
Incorrect:I suggest us to book the smaller room.
Correct:I suggest that we book the smaller room.
To name the person who will do the action after suggest, build a that-clause, not an object + to-infinitive structure.
Incorrect:What if we to share the cost?
Correct:What if we share the cost?
After the subject we in this pattern, use the finite form share without to.
Incorrect:I suggest that we meets at nine.
Correct:I suggest that we meet at nine.
After we in the clause, use the base form meet, not meets.
Sources
- British Council LearnEnglish — Verbs followed by the '-ing' form
- British Council LearnEnglish — Reported speech: reporting verbs
- British Council LearnEnglish — Messaging to make plans
- Cambridge English Grammar Today — Suggestions
- Cambridge English Grammar Today — Suppose, supposing and what if
- Cambridge English Grammar Today — Suggest